28 Sex Toys And Accessories To Spice Up Your Bedroom

Sep 11, 2023

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Promising review: "This dildo is AMAZING. I just used it on my partner and had to rush here to write a review because it was just such a pleasure to use. She loved the big head, and I loved how it kept its position. My partner has a big butt so we’ve always chosen lengthier dildos, but sometimes, that loses girth, and I can’t have the amount of push behind my thrusts like I would like, but this one was a great length AND girthy enough to translate some good fill. It is soooooo worth the money. This is our first NYTC dildo, but it will never be the last. I love that the company has handmade products made by the queer fam. Nobody gets our bodies like we do, and this product showed that for sure. I can’t wait to receive it! Thank you so much for doing you and making this amazing dildo!" —Armand Goldman

Get it from New York Toy Collective for $179 (available in eight colors).

The OG Magic Wand is also formerly known as the Hitachi, just to avoid confusion. The same beloved classic is now available in Plus (an upgraded, corded version with multiple speeds), Rechargeable (cordless version with multiple speeds) and Mini (a travel-friendly, cordless version).

Promising reviews: "In just a few seconds it sent my wife into ecstasy! I ordered another as a backup immediately. One of the best gifts I have ever bought my wife. I am super pleased with how well it works. My wife is also super pleased. A rough count was 10 on the first use!!!!!!! It is in fact a magic wand! The best wingman." —Jake Long

"Bought this for my wife. It nullified the rest of her equipment. I look forward to 'massaging' her regularly. It only takes five minutes, sometimes less, to 'release the muscles.' Absolutely screaming 'releases.' My wife looks like a kid in a candy store when I grab it. Durable and intense. 10/10." —Jeremy

Get it from Amazon $54+ (available in four styles).

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This waterproof ring includes a custom fit link for adjusting the size (35 mm without) and has 10 preset vibration settings to explore. But definitely download the We-Connect App, so you can have an unlimited amount of vibes to play with!

Promising reviews: "I got this for my bf who never tried a ring before and he loved it. He wears it a lot in bed and we also tried it in public once it was really fun. He can also put this around his fingers when he's fingering me which is basically a mini vibrator that I don't have to hold." —Haley

"It's very comfortable and would fit a lot of different penis sizes. Not only great to wear yourself but it takes finger play to the next level too!" —Brandon

Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $129.

The French Lover vibrator boasts four speeds and two pulsation modes to tickle, tease, and titillate your favorite body parts effortlessly. A wide-flared "tongue" is flexible enough to bend for pinpointed pressure or lightly caress, sending each vibration mode onto the skin like a delicate kiss.

Promising reviews: "I bought this for my wife and it's the first self-pleasure product that she has been able to use to orgasm successfully. Thanks." —Chris W.

"One of the most sensual toys I have ever tried. It can be gently slow and then go in a speed that will lead to climactic bliss. I very much recommend. It is perfect for a lonesome afternoon...slightly darkened room...a piece of chocolate and then going under the covers ready to greet your Smile Makers darlings again. This toy will not disappoint! It is my favorite...next to the Tennis Pro :)" —sumurun

Get it from Smile Makers or Urban Outfitters for $60.

This dual-stimulating silicone toy offers 10 powerful vibration modes and 5 inches of insertable length to reach that sweet spot.

Promising reviews: "My wife used it yesterday and it looks like a garden hose broke a valve. I’ve seen waterfalls that don’t have that much water. This thing is awesome." —Hassane Boucetta

"Got it for my wife. After work, she and I took a shower/bath, we got ready to start using it, and turned it on. I started to use it on her and by the reaction on her face, I know it was working great and she loved it!" —Joseph Veguilla

Get it from Amazon for $32.98 (available in purple and teal).

BTW — this Amazon favorite sex toy is a big hit with Trans users who've experienced bottom growth, and there's also a more in-depth review written by an Intersex Male person, if you're interested.

Promising reviews: "Bought this lil' fella for my GF so I don't need to work as hard. I spend thousands a year on tools because it makes my work easier. Why I waited until now to get the right tool for this job is a bit of a mystery. Anyways, to explain how good this is: almost no foreplay, stuck it to her, kissed her neck for a couple of minutes and she about broke her own back. Maybe five minutes! She thought she was done and pulled it off, I put it right back and kept going. Had to cover her mouth so she didn't wake up the kids. She had three by the time I had one, which works for me! TL;DR: buy it for your partner because you can't even try to compete with that." —Shaun F.

"My husband bought this for me as a surprise. We are pretty adventurous when it comes to our sex life. This thing is one powerful little machine. The highest level for just a couple of seconds has your legs shaking and quivering! You’ll need a few minutes to regather yourself after using this bad boy." —Brandon Jones

Get it from Amazon for $39.95 (available in three colors).

This set is perfect for anyone interested in experimenting with anal, whether beginner or expert level.

Promising review: "This kit made me comfortable and confident enough to try anal again. I had attempted it with a past partner years ago, and we did it ALL wrong. Fast forward a couple of years: I have a patient and knowledgeable partner, and I'm ready to try again. That's when I found this anal training kit, and let me tell you, it is well worth the money. Not only are the butt plugs of exceptional quality, but the Anal Guide is extremely informative. After using only the first two sizes of butt plugs, I'm having anal sex. Apprehension and fear have been lifted, and a whole new world of pleasure has taken its place. I'm seriously beyond grateful to have had such a comforting and helpful tool to introduce me to the magic of anal and butt play in general. Take it from me, if you're nervous but want to explore the pleasure your butthole has to offer, invest in this kit — or any of their beginner products for that matter." —Allyson

Get it from B-Vibe for $159.99 (available in black and blue).

B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.

FYI, be careful during play and communicate with your partner, because this toy is also technically a medical device and if pressed too hard could potentially puncture the skin!

Promising reviews: "All Imma say is get you one! Center of the back from the base of the neck straight down between the cheeks you won’t regret it! Trust me!" —Jason Love

"Love this item. It adds just the right amount of sensation when you are running it over your partner's skin. A blindfold adds to the feeling." —Scott A. Misko

Get it from Amazon for $9.49.

The silicone ring stretches to fit a variety of penises (or dildos), and the vibrator has five speeds and patterns for up to 25 varying intensities.

Promising reviews: "Bought as a Christmas present for my bf and it is amazing (for both of us). Good strong vibrations and the band is a bit stretchy (but still good tightness) for comfort. Best one I found after some research and it was certainly worth it and a great price. 10/10." —Spencer

"I bought this new toy for my girlfriend as a surprise for Valentine’s Day. Boy, it did not disappoint. My gf was able to have multiple Os. And I was able to last longer and stay harder for more than an hour. It was surprisingly strong and powerful. This couples' ring has many different vibrations and intensity. It’s very easy to clean and use. It takes only one hour for a full charge too. I totally recommend this couple ring to any couple who wants to spice things up." —John L.

Get it from Amazon for $38.66.

This little toy has an ergonomic design for easy handling and six vibration modes to blow your mind.

Promising reviews: "I received this as a gift from my husband, and to be honest I was skeptical. So many products are sold because of good marketing, not good products. So when I read some reviews that stated they reached orgasm in under 1–2 minutes, I didn't necessarily believe it. But I stand corrected. It really can. As others have said, there is a brief learning curve. If I were going to criticize anything, it would be that it can work a little too fast. Multiple orgasms are real. Very quiet. Get your foreplay in with your spouse long before you use this, because you won't have much time once you do." —farmgirl

"Advice for couples: do not start an evening with Womanizer. Leave it for a dessert. I made this mistake. I bought it to surprise my wife, and started 'applying' almost right after we dimmed the lights. She finished very quickly, and she was so overwhelmed that for the next half an hour or more she just was laying down happy, smiling and not being able to engage in any other activities. She said she never had such an experience with any other toys, and that she definitely recommends it!" —Michael B.

Get it from Amazon for $69+ (originally $74 and available in five colors).

Many reviewers love this toy, but it's not a perfect fit for everyone, so be sure to check the reviews for extra info on if this toy would work for you.

Promising review: "OK, the Eva II is a game changer. It’s comfortable and easy to use. The three levels of vibration are perfection (level three is...life changing). I bought this to use with my husband but have only used it solo so far. Eva is the second toy I’ve ever purchased! I honestly had the most intense orgasm I’ve ever had with the first use. I highly recommend this and can’t wait to use it with my husband. It does take a bit of moving around at first to figure out how it fits best for you!" —Kelsey R.

Get it from Dame for $140 (available in ice and orange) or Amazon for $145 (available in orange and green).

Promising review: "I was looking for an angled glass toy to perfectly stimulate my G-spot and I got it right on the first shot by purchasing this toy! This toy makes me squirt and come so fast and like never before. My boyfriend used it on me, and I had the best orgasm of my life! So so pleased with this purchase. The ribbed end is also great for anal stimulation. It’s multipurpose and amazing!" —B.K.

Get it from Amazon for $14.99.

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This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25" W.

Promising reviews: "I will never not use this thing. It is soooo soft. feels so nice AND hits that sweet spot every single time. My girl and I love it. 🥇🥇🥇" —Brie Sews

"Pegging is an amazingly sensual act, this ups that immensely and allows me to put pressure on my clit and take in all the pleasures (sights, sounds and feels)." —Ponch

Get it from Amazon for $36 (available in four colors).

Promising reviews: "I absolutely cannot say enough great things about these straps. They are versatile, discreet, convenient, extremely durable, well-made, and a ton of fun. Highly recommended for anyone who loves to spice things up in the bedroom." —AB

"These are very good. Wasn't sure if the velcro would be strong enough, but it was! She loved them and I loved them. If you are looking for a great addition to fun in the bedroom I highly recommend getting these." —N. W.

Get it from Amazon for $37.18.

This rabbit vibrator weighs in at 10 inches long with an insertable length of 5.5 inches and soft, silky, body-safe silicone that's submersible, offering thrilling rumbles as you play. If Christian Grey had a penis that did all of these things, could you really blame Anastasia for falling for him?

Promising review: "I brought this for my wife as a naughty stocking filler for Christmas. She loved how it looked and was very happy that it could be charged in the wall rather than have batteries. I charged it for nearly three hours and let her decide when she wanted to use it. I've never known anything like it. She didn't hesitate to try it out and tried every single setting. She seemed to settle on number 4 while the rabbit ears were going at her Clit. She said she had the biggest orgasm she'd had for some time after around five or six minutes tops. She couldn't get enough. Afterward she said that it was certainly the best vibrator she'd ever had and couldn't wait to use it again." —Kram69

Get it from Lovehoney for $99.99 or Amazon for $55.28.

Promising review: "Great little toy! I bought it for the girlfriend who absolutely loves it. Easy to use with it’s one button control and battery lasts a long time with quick charge. I would definitely recommend this as it makes a great gift and fun toy." —William Roman

Get it from Amazon for $11.99 (available in four colors).

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This waterproof vibrator has a run time of 1.5 hours and an ergonomic shape that offers easy handling.

Promising reviews: "We received the Arc — we have all the Dame products since Eva was intro'd — and it is in line with the philosophy of superb products focused on satisfying women's needs. Arc is no exception. I surprised my wife with it and she immediately showed interest and was rewarded — twice! First time ever multiple orgasm and definitely something that we are now pursuing with the combination of Arc and Eva/Fin. Cannot recommend Dame and specifically the new Arc high enough — they just need to be in your arsenal." —Joe R.

"When my partner purchased this product for me I was very excited as I own several Dame products. The motor really is the selling point with this device, even on its highest setting it doesn’t feel 'buzzy,' providing a lower-frequency deep-tissue stimulation. Easy to hold handle, good variety of settings. Only other additional note is that the 'bulb' was a bit larger than I’d prefer for immediate penetration but was a perfect size once worked up to." —William A.

Get it from Dame (available in ice and plum) or Amazon for $115 (only available in plum).

This harness also has internal pockets in case you want to place a bullet vibrator for added pleasure.

Promising reviews: "This is my favorite harness! I have had two myself and bought a couple for partners over the years. This is my go to and the only harness I ever recommend." —wordsspitout

"Bought for my girlfriend to wear for pegging. Looks great. Fits her great. Good quality material. Well worth the money." —Sarge

Get it from Amazon for $134.95 (available in two sizes and three colors).

This unique wearable is designed to help people manage pain and customize penetration depth (depending on the number of rings worn) without sacrificing sensation.

Promising review: "I bought these because my wife looked into them and thought they'd be a good idea to make sex a little bit better for her and hopefully still as good for me. Thankfully after purchasing and trying them out, I can say they are worth every penny! My wife is more satisfied and happier to have sex, and I still feel amazing as well. The Ohnuts don't take any longer to put on than a condom if you stack them prior (stack them prior...it's awkward stacking while they're on), and they give you the feeling of deeply penetrating without hurting your spouse, who can now focus on enjoying sex instead of embracing pain. They are also really easy to clean and come with a small cloth bag to place them in if you don't want to have side conversations about Ohnuts, which is entirely up to you. Overall, I 100% would recommend." —Q.D.

Get it from Ohnut for $75.

Ohnut Co. is a woman-founded and small business wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.

At 7.5 inches long, this bulbous beauty steps into the ring and offers 2 pounds of weight for the full feeling your other toys might be missing. You can pop this metal toy in the fridge and let it chill, so you can really treat yourself, if you know what I mean.

Promising reviews: "This is the best toy I’ve ever bought for my wife! First couple of times she used it on herself. Last time I used it on her. Every time she has big time G-spot orgasms. She hasn’t squirted yet, but I believe that’s just due to her not being relaxed enough and letting go. Update: she finally squirted with it the other day! No other toy needed." —Donald H.

"Wife bought this for me and it is amazing. It took a while to get used larger ball end, but once in and rubbing against the prostate, it will not take long for you to EXPLODE!" —Kkelley

Get it from Amazon for $69.

This sleek vibrating stroker is inspired by the appearance and power of an actual manta ray. It's designed with waterproof silicone, six speeds and six vibrating patterns turn oral sex, masturbation and couples' play into a mind-blowing time for anyone with a penis.

Promising review: "I got this toy for my partner for his birthday. He's bought me lots of toys over the years and I wanted to gift him his own toy that we can also use together. He enjoys the pleasure it brings, in the bed or in the shower. It's pretty powerful, has lots of options and settings, and feels good on my clit too (though a bit too strong of vibrations for me). We've only used it once together so we still need to experiment a bit more with positions for it to bring us both to climax but this is a really awesome, high quality toy so I am hopeful!" —Lilliana

Get it from Amazon for $139.99+ or Fun Factory for $139.99 (available in three colors and jewel-tone).

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The slim, ergonomic design offers effortless handling on your own, but also easy fitting between you and a partner. And for more details on this suction vibe, see why it ranks as #1 in my personal ranked review of suction vibrators!

Promising review: "Very efficient! Love the interactive feature to use with my husband that works far from home. Works with both of our Apple phones fine. 10 and up. Sleek design easy to hold. Works quickly. My only small, menial complaint is that it is slightly loud and I worry about kids coming into my bedroom so I get caught! :) Not a big enough deal to stop me from loving it." —marybrnrd

Get it from Amazon for $149 (available in dark blue and coral).

The set includes a vibrating butt plug, wireless remote, three B-Vibe enamel pins, carrying case, greeting card and sticker.

This 1.5-inch diameter plug has seven rotation patterns and six intensities to explore and stimulate your P-spot as you start (or continue) your journey into anal play. Also, it's splash-proof!

Looking for something a little larger? Check out the Rimming Plug 2 and the Rimming Plug XL, which have all the same features but a little more length.

Promising reviews: "My partner is skeptical when it comes to anal toys. But she absolutely loves this plug. Being wireless there is no messy wires in the way. And having rechargeable batteries is just fantastic. She loves the feel of the rimming action. She was satisfied many times. Best butt plug on the market hands down." —JAV (on Plug 2)

"I purchased the rimming plug petite after the thrilling experiences I had with the Snug Plug. The rotating beads in the neck on their own are amazing and then add in the vibrating tip... exhilarating!!! With the remote, you can just relax and discover what patterns and intensity turn you on. Very innovative." —TK (on Petite)

Get it from B-Vibe for $159.99 (available in three colors) or Amazon for $110.63+ (also available in Rimming Plug 2 and XL).

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Promising review: "I am just starting to experiment with nipple clamps, but I think I found my favorite. Honestly, other clamps looked a little intimidating but these look like a beautiful piece of jewelry. They're so easy to customize pressure (especially for a novice) and it's nice having the versatility to choose whether or not you want to use the clit clamp. I did notice that the clamp guard did stick to my skin when taking them off, but next time I will try using a little lube beforehand. Overall, I would definitely recommend. I am buying a second pair to give to my sex therapist so she can show them in her practice, especially for newbies exploring pleasure. :)" —L J.

Get it from Unbound or Amazon for $35.

This wedge-shaped pillow is designed with a machine-washable cotton cover and water-resistant lining in case things get a little messy. A handle on each side offers support no matter your favorite position.

Promising reviews: "It’s really amazing how much of a difference this makes. We are a gay male couple and I wasn’t sure if the pillow would be good for same-sex couples but it definitely is. The firmness is great for ALL positions. It surpassed my standards." —Leonardo D.

"Quality made and good firmness. A pillow to use for more than good sex positions and support. Washable cover is a plus." —Patrice B.

Get it from Dame or Amazon for $95.

At 7.6 inches long and 1.5 inches wide (at the largest point), this vibrator sets itself apart with 10 unique vibration modes.

Promising review: "Wow, when my husband got this for me I didn’t think it could do what it does for me. It hits my G-spot so good I squirt every time, back to back. Even after my husband used it on me it make the sex even better." —Seth&nikki

Get it from Amazon for $36.98 (available teal and purple).

This bondage set boasts various items made of leather and nylon, including one pair of handcuffs, one pair of ankle cuffs, one pair of nipple clamps, a whip, a rope, a ball gag, a feather tickler, a collar, a hogtie, a blindfold and a paddle.

Promising review: "I was surprised how many pieces came with this set. The fur lining makes the cuffs and collars very comfortable, and uses buckles rather than velcro. The set is shown on women but I used it on a man. Some of the chain link could probably be broken through, if they wanted to. Impact play items work well, and the variety of items give this set a lot of options. I used the cuffs with a bed strap system I already had." —Anonymous

Get it from Amazon for $32.99.

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